Pleased to Meet You!!

I was reading a magazine and came across an article on summer dating tips. One of the women featured in the article made a point that gave me an "Aha moment." She said that she is always friendly to every guy that approaches her. She said that men will watch how you interact with other men. If you are unapproachable or dismiss every guy that attempts to make conversation, the cute guy across the bar will never approach you.

I know we have all been approached by guys who do not have a chance; while the guy you've been eyeing all night doesn't make a move. He doesn't want to be rejected either! It's starting to become clear. My body language screams "Do not look at me, do not try to talk to me. I am not interested!!!" Even if you are bold enough, I will swat you like Obama did the fly! Lol. The article made me realize that I need to change this part of my personality. If I am going to be successful at dating, I need to have a positive demeanor. I do not have to go on a date with every guy that says hello, but I can be friendly. "THE ONE" could be watching across the room.